Being classy isn´t a matter of how you appear on the outside. It´s a matter what kind of a person you are on the inside. Being classy means to treat people respectful and not loosing sight for the worries and troubles of other people that might seem little or unimportant for us at this moment. It is about noticing that everyone is just fighting his or her own fight. And that this fight is maybe the centre of their existence at that point. So, instead of not paying attention to this little fights we should take a step back and remember where we came from, what journey we took and be thankful that it led us to a good path. And we should take time in our busy lifes to listen to the little issues of the people around, because for them it really matters. We should remember ourselves every day to be more gentle to the people around, even if we had to take a rough path to gain where we are now. We don´t have to force others to take the rough path, just because we´ve been forced once. Of course everyone has to bite through some issues at work or in private life every day or every week, you have to be strong and incompliant to reach your goals and get ahead. But just for a week, we should really try to solve this fights graceful and make an effort to find time to be gentle to the people around. Maybe we find out all this biting is not really necessary, who knows.
For all of you who wonder for some lines how this is connected to the headline - it´s also classy to give just a single flower to a woman. Not an overloaded bouquet of flowers, just a single flower someone chose himself just for you. It is classy, if he brings you to think about all this so no date-like topics and you still have a really good time even you´re not on the bright side of conversation topics all the time. It is good to meet someone you can have fun and be serious with same time. I´m looking forward to more of that :)
Have a lovely Sunday evening & a good start to the new week!
Bridy
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